| Children's
Books

Who
Is a Stranger and What Should I Do? (An
Albert Whitman Prairie Book) -- Explains how to deal
with strangers in public places, on the telephone,
and in cars, emphasizing situations in which the best
thing to do is run away or talk to another adult.

My
Body Is Private A mother-child conversation introduces the topic
of sexual abuse and ways to keep one's body private.
Something
Happened and I'm Scared to Tell: A Book for Young Victims
of Abuse
With the help of a friendly lion, a young sexual abuse victim is able to talk
about sexual abuse and recover self-esteem. Gentle and positive approach to
reassure children.
Trouble
With Secrets -- Secrets can be a confusing issue
for children which secrets should be told and which secrets
should be kept? This book helps children distinguish
between hurtful secrets and good surprises.
Safe Kids : A Complete Child-Safety Handbook and Resource Guide for Parents A handbook and working reference for parents of children from birth through high school. Using positive guidelines rather than a list of do's and don'ts, the book will help you provide your child with a sense of security and the ability to act and react in challenging situations. Topics covered include school, street, transportation, recreation and medical safety, spending time at home alone, sexual abuse and more. Parents and children will learn how to handle the hazards of today's complex world.
Slayer
of Innocence
by Jim Conover
More than 16 young boys throughout the Midwest, California, Oklahoma
and Arizona disappeared under similar circumstances and 14 had
been discovered murdered. This pedophile predator had made the
Midwest his killing field from 1972 until 1979.
Father-Daughter
Incest by Judith Lewis Herman
Through an intensive clinical study of forty incest victims and numerous interviews with professionals in mental health, child protection, and law enforcement, Judith Herman develops a composite picture of the incestuous family.
Innocence
Betrayed: Paedophilia, the Media, and Society by
Jon Silverman, David Wilson
The
Hidden Monster: Pedophilia by Shawn
Michael Dove
Because
I Love You - The Silent Shadow of Child Sexual Abuse Susan
Gubar, Ph.D., Distinguished Professor
of English, Indiana University "Uses
her own intensely painful past to combat the complicities
of silence among relatives and friends which harm our children."
Sexual
Exploitation of Children: Hearings Before the Subcommittee
on Crime of the Committee on the Judiciary House of Representatives,
Ninety-Fifth Congress, 1st Session May, 23, 25,
American
Justice: Rape in Connecticut Story of the former
high school wrestling star who spent eight years as a fugitive
in Europe before surrendering in Switzerland in 1995. A standout
at Darien High School, 18-year old Alex Kelly was charged
with raping two teenage girls four days apart in 1986. Kelly
is currently serving a 16-year sentence.
The
Safe Child Book: A Commonsense Approach to Protecting Children
and Teaching Children to Protect Themselves -- Based on the author's successful education
workshop, which gives parents effective and nonthreatening
techniques for teaching children how to protect themselves
without making them afraid. Written by one of the few nationally
recognized authorities on the subject, The Safe Child Book
provides a comprehensive educational program covering a wide
range of topics that concern parents today, including sexual
abuse, abduction, leaving children alone, surfing the Internet,
school safety, and choosing a day-care center or baby-sitter. |
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Pedophilia, (paedophilia, pædophilia) are adult sexual fantasies and desires towards children. Pedophilia is not a crime but acting on those feelings is.
The median age of the victims of imprisoned sexual offenders was less than 13 years old." Bureau of Justice Standards
In 1991, 96% of female rape victims younger than 12 years old, knew their attackers. 20% were victimized by their fathers or step-fathers. US Department of Justice
A 1994 survey of 453 pedophiles, revealed they were
collectively responsible for the molestation of over 67,000 children; an average of 148 children per pedophile. National
Institute of Health survey conducted by Dr. Gene Abel
2/3rds of Sex Offenders in State Prisons were victimized
a Child Bureau of Justice Standards
60% of 234,000 sexual offenders in 1994 convicted
of rape or sexual assault were under conditional supervision in
the community. Bureau of Justice Standards
Pedophilia is an adult acting out sexual urges towards
juveniles not mature enough to consent to sex with an adult. It is illegal, it is held to the same criminal standard as rape the perpetrator is classified as a sexual offender.
Pedophilia is diagnosed solely on sexual fantasies or urges -- not acts. The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders American Psychiatric Association's 4th edition diagnostic criteria for pedophilia (302.2) is:
A. Over a period of at least 6 months, recurrent, intense
sexually arousing fantasies, sexual urges, or behaviors involving
sexual activity with a prepubescent child or children (generally
13 years or younger).
B. The fantasies, sexual urges, or behaviors cause clinically
significant distress or impairment in social, occupational
or other important areas of functioning.
C. The person is at least age 16 years and at least 5 years
older than the child or children in Criterion A.
Note: Do not include an individual in late adolescence
involved in an ongoing sexual relationship with a 12- or
13-year-old.
Children are a pedophile's primary sexual attraction however a distinction is made between situational offenders and pedophiles. Children are not the primary sexual preference of situational offenders but if the situation presents itself they will act on it. Fathers who have incestuous relationships with their daughters incest are usually
situational offenders.
Juvenile sex offender's crimes refer to violent or consensual illegal acts. Hebephilia, hebophilia, and ephebophilia differentiates attraction to adolescents, from an attraction to younger children.
In ancient Greece pederasty, was sex between adult male philosophers or scholars and their young male students through anal intercourse. This form of arete, was considered an honor. In some South Pacific islands, jerungdu, is a rite of passage; where older boys receive oral sex from younger boys to facilitate sexual maturity.
Sexually abused children and their families need immediate professional treatment to help the children regain self-esteem, cope with guilt, and overcoming the trauma. Treatment reduces the risk of the child developing serious problems as an adult. American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry
Child sexual assault is exploiting or coercing sex on anyone under the age of 18. It does not require physical contact but includes voyeurism, exhibitionism, pornography, fondling, oral/anal/vaginal penetration, and prostitution.
Sexual Assault of Young Children as Reported to Law Enforcement: Victim, Incident, and Offender Characteristics Presents findings from the National Incident-Based Reporting System regarding sexual assault, especially of young children. The data reports from 12 States law enforcement agencies 1991 - 1996 in 4 categories: forcible rape, forcible sodomy, sexual assault with an object, and forcible fondling. Findings include detailed characteristics.
Sexual Abuse Statistics
Celebrity survivors of child sexual abuse speak out
Child Sexual Abuse (pdf; 75 KB) The Sexual Assault Crisis Center
Child Sexual Abuse A National Center for PTSD Fact Sheet Julia Whealin, Ph.D. Sexually abused children may show symptoms of PTSD, including agitated behavior, frightening dreams, and repetitive play of the abuse. Because of the abuse children may show sexual behavior inappropriate for their age. Children tend to "act out" with behavior problems, depression, or by withdrawing. They may try to injure themselves or attempt suicide.
The
Ward Weaver Story: On a stormy winter morning, Ashley
Pond, 12, a seventh-grader headed
for the school bus stop in Oregon City, OR about 8 a.m. on Jan.
9, 2002. Ashley did not make it to school. Two months later on
March 8, 2002, 13-year-old Miranda Diane Gaddis, disappeared
after she left her apartment at 8 a.m. for the school bus. Ashley
and Miranda attended the same school, rode the same bus, were
in the same dance class and had a common friend.
Searching
For Angela Shelton -- Angela knew about the subject of sexual
abuse well, because that was her dark secret.
Thierry
and Myriam Delay (aka Myriam Badaoui) were found guilty of
abusing their own four children and getting relatives and neighbors
on a French housing estate involved.
Writing about my
rape at the age of seven was the hardest story I'd ever done.
Then I landed in jail.
In girls
sports in Washington, 159 coaches have been reprimanded or fired
for sexual misconduct in the past decade. And 98 continued
to coach or teach - as schools, the state and even some parents
looked the other way. Read the response about how school
districts and the teachers' union tried to keep the records secret.
East on the Jericho Road:
The Murder of Paulette Crickmore September 10, 1986, Paulette,
15, was on her way to school when she vanished. My
Favorite Teacher -- One night my biology teacher picked
up a 17 year-old hitchhiker named Jefferson Wesley. He
ordered the boy to bend over and locate the hangman's noose
by his feet. Wesley found it and tightened it around his
neck the way Mr. Lindwall instructed.
The first media exposs about a massive
trade in child pornography started in the US, England
and Scandinavia at the end of the 1970s. They reached the
Netherlands for the first time in 1984, causing shock and
fascination, because of the enormous volume of business.
Alejandro Avila accused of murdering Samantha
Runnion, was acquitted of molesting 2 other young girls.
The mother of one of those girls, Avila's former fiancee, Beth
Veglahn, shares her story.
Former Green Bay Packer Mark
Chmura, 31, acquitted of 3rd-degree sexual assault and child
enticement after a teenager claimed he raped her at an after
prom party. Chmura faced a $300 fine for allowing drinking by
Catholic Memorial High School students. Chmura said his behavior "wasn't
something a married man should do." The party was hosted
by Robert
Gessert, 43, father of a daughter graduating was ordered
to pay a $6,000 fine and 80 hours of community service. Gessert
pulled a friend of his daughter onto his lap in the hot tub and
inserted a finger in her vagina.
Movie director Roman
Polanski, whose pregnant wife, Sharon Tate, was murdered
by the Manson family, accused of
raping Samantha Geimer, 13, pled guilty to sex with a minor but
fled and has been a fugitive from US justice for 25 years.
We
can do a better job with a young sex offender -- Nicholas
Stroeder, 13, sex offender, assaulted a 9-year-old foster sister
and tried to rape a woman in a bathroom stall on a field trip. Deputies
at $40 an hour guard him round the clock while alternative
is sought. "I just want what's right for my son," says Helen
Stroeder, mother.
Church
protects pedophiles, victim charges in lawsuit -- A woman
sexually abused as a child by a leader of a Jehovah's Witnesses
church, filed a civil lawsuit against the congregation, and the national organization, alleging they protect
pedophiles.
The history and outcome of one of the largest and
most controversial child sexual molestation cases - Little
Rascals Day Care center in Edenton, NC.
In "The
Child Terror," Peter J. Boyer travels to Dade County, Florida
to explore the roots and consequences of the nation's 15-year
legal battle against child sexual abuse. During the 1980s, high-profile
cases were prosecuted by Janet Reno.
Children
who molest other children.
Castrating
chemicals - A sexually abusive doctor claims he
is cured by a drug called Lupron that decreases testosterone, the hormone that fuels sex
drive. Salon
Sexual
Harassment Hotline Resource List- - Sexual
Harassment Internet Resources- These groups and agencies
deal with sexual harassment on the job or in school
settings. Feminist Majority Foundation
Megan's
Law in All 50 States -- May 17, 1996, President Clinton signed
Megan's Law . Megan's Law goals include Sex Offender Registration
and Community Notification programs.
The Jacob Wetterling
Foundation- Protecting Children from sexual exploitation
and abduction.
Children
and Human Trafficking -- Not only is the sale of children
itself made more accessible and inexpensive through telecommunications
advances, but the expansion of existing criminal networks
is facilitated by rapid and enhanced contact-gathering and
information exchange capacities.
Trafficking
in Women and Children Mekong Sub-Region "When I realized
that I have been sold from one place to another like goods
I felt ashamed and disappointed. I'm a human being. I have
the right to live like other people." - Cambodian
woman
The Pedophile Panic Is child sexual abuse an epidemic or hype? Judith Levine
SexCriminals.com scours
the internet for news stories related to sex offenders, sex
crimes, sexual abuse, legislation and other news of interest.
Terrify No More --In a small village outside of Phnom Pehn, little children as young as five years old were forced to live as sex slaves. Day after day their hope was slipping away. Tireless workers from International Justice Mission (IJM) infiltrated the ring of brothels and gathered evidence to free the children. Headed up by former war-crimes investigator Gary Haugen, IJM faced impossible odds-police corruption, death threats, and mission-thwarting tip-offs. But they used their expert legal finesse and high-tech investigative techniques to save the lives of 37 young girls and secured the arrest and conviction of several perpetrators. Terrify No More focuses on this dramatic rescue story, and uses flashbacks to tell those of many other victims who were given a second chance at life by this amazing organization.
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Capturing
the Friedmans
Winner
of the Grand Jury Prize at the 2003 Sundance Film Festival. Capturing
The Friedmans
is a middle-class family living in an affluent New
York suburb. On Thanksgiving, as the family gathers
for dinner, their front door explodes,
by a police battering ram. Officers accused Arnold Friedman and his youngest son Jesse of shocking crimes. The film follows their story through real footage inside the house. As police
investigate, and the community reacts, the family
disintegrates, revealing the truth.
Michael
Jackson Was My Lover
Held
Captive: The Kidnapping and Rescue of Elizabeth Smart --
by Maggie Haberman, Jeane MacIntosh -- On a June night in
2002, in Salt Lake City, a teenager Elizabeth Smart was abducted
from her bedroom. March of the following year, Elizabeth
was discovered a few miles from her home, a prisoner
of a self proclaimed Messiah and his wife.
American
Justice: Rape in Connecticut (2000) The former high
school wrestling star who spent eight years as a fugitive
in Europe before surrendering in Switzerland in 1995. A standout
at Darien High School, 18-year old Alex Kelly was charged
with raping two teenaged girls four days apart in 1986. Kelly
is currently serving a 16-year sentence.
17
Days: The Katie Beers Story by Arthur Herzog -- Katie
Beers, in West Islip, a Long Island
suburb roamed the streets at all hours. Child protection
authorities knew Katie stayed with her
mother in a filthy, roach-infested house. December 28, 1992,
2 days before her 10th birthday, Katie
left for an outing with a family friend, handyman,
John Esposito. He claimed to have driven Katie to an
amusement center and lost her. January 13th, Katie was found alive
locked in a bunker under Esposito's garage, chained by the neck.
Male
Sexual Abuse: A Trilogy of Intervention Strategies The field of treatment of male sexual abuse victims has evolved to the point where multiple perspectives can be considered and this is certainly a sign of growth. provided mental health and human service professional with clinically sophisticated points of view as well as stimulus for further discussion of ways to improve clinical intervention with adolescent male sexual perpetrators and victims.

Treating Nonoffending Parents in Child Sexual Abuse Cases: Connections for Family Safety A program for nonoffending parents and partners of sex offenders, helps therapists determine if and when children can live safely in homes with known sexual offenders and presents a model for treating the nonoffending members of families who plan reunification. While the authors do not advocate reunification, the book describes a plan that keeps family safety through relapse prevention as the first priority.
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